//A cup of self-love

A cup of self-love

Good morning, beautiful people!


With today marking the start of a new week, I think we’ve all been given yet another chance at a fresh start. So, here I am, with my cup of coffee, super early in the morning, doing the thing I’ve skiped for a while: writing, sharing my thoughts and also pieces of my life. I like to take opportunities like new weeks, new months and even new years to revalue or re-establish where I’m at and where I’m going on this journey. This year was so crazy, I had a lot of ups and downs and even now when I’m still a little confused about some things, I am confident and happy, because everyday I am a work in progress.


So I’m asking myself with this fresh beginning ahead “what can I do to improve myself in my journey?” I was so convinced recently I was on my own feet only to have the groung kicked out from beneath me. And thinking about all these, it comes to my mind an E.Hemingway’s quote – “The world breaks everyone and afterward many are stronger in the broken places.” After this, I decided it was time to love myself more. Because I’ve realized that if I don’t love myself consciously, then subconsciously I start taking decisions to self harm without even knowing it.


One of the easiest way to love yourself more is to take care of yourself: start drinking more water, eat healthy, go to the gym, do some yoga, wear something nice and sexy. I guess we sometimes stop doing all these things because we are already feeling bad and ugly or fat. But we have to take care of ourselves only because we deserve it. So tonight, when you arrive home, make yourself some hair and face masks, drink some wine and read a great book.

The second thing you can do is to stay light, to have good thoughts. Read some good books and listen to some podcasts to start gain more confidence and to learn new things. Also, you can start to meditate, it helps a lot.

Don’t compare yourself with others – that’s really important- Don’t forget that nobody is you and that’s your superpower. Find out your passions, what you love and what makes you happy, so you can discover your greatness and your worthiness. We are all amazing!

Another important step is to be grateful for what you have. At the end of the day find at least 3 reasons to be thankful for, especially the simple things like you lived another day, you could breathe and felt the sun on your skin.

Redifine your idea of beauty. You can’t feel ugly no matter what! We all have days when we don’t feel so good about ourselves, but don’t let that change you. Don’t compare yourself with other people because there will always be someone prettier or smarter, but that doesn’t mean you are not amazing. You don’t have to be beautiful like her. You have to be beautiful YOU!

Love yourself a little bit more everyday because when we show up with confidence and self-love, I have faith that’s when the Universe steps in to fill in the map of our journey with some amazing things!


Have a nice week, babes!





By | 2018-08-13T06:06:28+00:00 August 13th, 2018|Cozy|26 Comments


  1. Denisa August 14, 2018 at 3:51 pm

    I think it’s important to be grateful for what you have in order to be happy. Nice message you shared!😁

  2. Oana August 14, 2018 at 4:38 pm

    Ce bine ar fi dacă ne-am aminti mai des să ne îndreptăm atenția către noi… Am face lucrurile cu mai multă energie și cu mai multă pasiune.

  3. carmen alexa August 14, 2018 at 7:04 pm

    Very good advices. I think that love should be the first thing that we have to give to ourselves. 😍 than to others!

  4. Mihaela Curea August 14, 2018 at 7:22 pm

    Let s hope that lot of women will read and understand this message.

  5. Raluca Pichiu August 14, 2018 at 7:44 pm

    Yeah, I hope that too 🙂

  6. Raluca Pichiu August 14, 2018 at 7:44 pm

    Exactly 🙂

  7. Raluca Pichiu August 14, 2018 at 7:46 pm


  8. Raluca Pichiu August 14, 2018 at 7:46 pm

    Exactly. Thank you! 🙂

  9. Deyutza August 14, 2018 at 9:47 pm

    Daca tu ai incredere in tine , atunci sigur vor avea si altii, Totul incepe de la tine

  10. Andra kat August 15, 2018 at 9:12 am

    M ai prins intr o pasa foarte proasta :))
    Ideile sunt foarte bune si pozitive, in timp, poate voi reuși sa le pun in practica

  11. Butterfly August 15, 2018 at 11:47 am

    Se zice ca omul se iubeste pe sine si apoi pe ceilalti insa de cele mai multe ori noi suntem cei mai mari critici ai nostri si trebuie multa munca sa schimbam asta, din pacate

  12. Raluca Pichiu August 15, 2018 at 1:41 pm

    asa cum am zis in articol si eu am avut multe momente proaste in acest an, important e sa gasim o motivatie indeajuns de puternica incat sa trecem peste toate astea cu un zambet pe buze si cu ideea ca totul e inspre evolutia/binele nostru. Pana la urma trebuie doar sa avem putina incredere in Univers si ca toate se rezolva 🙂

  13. Raluca Pichiu August 15, 2018 at 1:41 pm

    Asa este! 🙂

  14. LacraRevs August 15, 2018 at 4:00 pm

    Mulțumim pentru toate sfaturile! Să vedem acum când le punem în aplicare, din păcate.. mai greu cu asta. 🙁

  15. Alexa August 15, 2018 at 7:32 pm

    Ai dreptate 🙂 trebuie sa ne iubim mai mult, sa avem mai multa incredere in noi si sa fim recunoscători pentru ceea ce avem! Foarte bune si sfaturile 🙂 trebuie sa mai meditez si eu putin… chiar am nevoie si nu am mai facut asta de ceva timp!Pupici!💋

  16. Catalina Coman August 15, 2018 at 7:54 pm

    Your advices shoul be read and understood. 😀 Very nice article!

  17. Raluca Pichiu August 15, 2018 at 7:59 pm

    Thank you!

  18. Irina August 15, 2018 at 8:17 pm

    Trebuie sa ne iubim mai mult. Totul pornește de la noi. Daca noi ne iubim și avem încredere în noi și alți vor avea.

  19. Alecsandra Airam August 15, 2018 at 8:57 pm

    Ai scris atat de frumos. Recent am scris eu pe blog un articol asemanator, in care vorbesc despre increderea pe care trebuie sa o avem in noi. Felicitari! Pupici

  20. Simona August 15, 2018 at 8:59 pm

    E important să avem încredere în noi și să ne iubim sufletul. De acolo pornește iubirea adevărată!!

  21. Rokolla August 15, 2018 at 11:01 pm

    Cred ca trebuie sa ne iubim si sa ne respectam pe noi insine si asta vom primi si din partea celor din jur

  22. Daniela Oţet August 16, 2018 at 5:00 am

    Un articol pe care l-am savurat! Ultima parte din el merita citită de mai multe ori. Felicitări! ❤

  23. Raluca Pichiu August 16, 2018 at 7:21 am

    Multumesc! Ma bucur ca ti a placut :*

  24. Raluca Pichiu August 16, 2018 at 7:22 am

    Multumesc! Am citit articolul tau, e superb. Te pup:*

  25. Andrea Chitic August 16, 2018 at 3:13 pm

    Dacă ar exista și o rețetă pentru asta, ar mai ușor, așa facem și noi ce putem. 🙂

  26. Eva August 16, 2018 at 3:44 pm

    Un articol tare fain! Bine ar fi sa lasam la o parte tot ce negativ, si sa ne apreciem asa cum suntem. After all, nu putem sa ne acceptam si ne iubim asa cum suntem, daca nu recunoastem ca avem si parti mai putin bune. That is the only way we can be the best version of ourselves ^_^

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